We must create who we are. Waiting around for life to happen to you is a waste of your time, your creativity, and your future.
What in your life are you truly passionate about? That is what you must do. It will not happen over night. I may not happen in the first year. If you put in the time and the effort, all the bumps, bruises and setbacks will, in the end, have been worthwhile.
Never give up working towards your dreams.
Your dreams are there to inspire you.
Now get off your ass and make those dreams, that "it" you are passionate about, happen.